Not Taking the Time to Think
With the help of a career counsellor and a couples counsellor over the span of a year or so, I've gathered that I don't sit down, think and prepare for big things like meetings, job interviews, dates and the such.
Apparently to get what I want out of them, I've got to sit down, think and prepare for them.
Does anyone else have this problem?
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Naww, man, you don't have to do all that! It's all about the confidence that comes with practice. I've found, with job interviews, when I go to ones I either don't want or think I won't get, I do best at. Go figure.
So maybe I just need to talk my subconscious up and program it with confidence. In other words, self-affirm it. Supposedly, the subconscious, or our implicit thinking that we're not consciously aware of, have a stronger influence over our behavior than I've been led to believe.
What a jerk!
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